[[...ORD = Freedom + Jobless...]]
Finally, ORD aready. At last i can put a full stop for my NS life, and now is the starting of my social life and working. Now i have to start to earn money and contribute to my faily expenses. But now, im still jobless, currently my friend is helping to get a job at the starhub outlet as a retail sales officer or customer service officer. If i can get this job, i will have a fix income and can pay all my bills and etc.Anyway, i have delayed my studies till next year March. I have made this decision because i want to work and gain experience outside. And i also can saved up for my master degree course, if i have graduated from my degree course.
As for my girlfriend, she is not going to stay at Singapore for long, as she is about to go oversea for her further studies as a vet. And she is going to be away for 6 years, i know it is very challenging for both of us. I hope there is nothing change after 6 years pass. Anyway, she will come back to Singapore every year to visit her family and her friends. So still not that bad actually, i know this is a way to comfort myself, as i really can't find anything to comfort me le...
Im not afraid of anything, just that im scare that she change of "Heart" or her view of aspect to me changes when time passes.
My wish now is that i really can get her as my wife and also wish that she will be who she is after her studies.
posted by xing @ 7:22 PM
2 Comments:
matt, i know it is tough for you in that 6 years, but remember, there are always changes in life that you didnt expect it will happen. My advise is to always keep in contact and catch up with her pace. i know its tough but that's one of the option. Another option for you is to go over with her and look for any course that is suitable for you in her uni. I personally think that the 2nd option is the best. But it really depends on your financial capabilities.
Yes, i know the second option is the best. But i also have to consider on my parent side...that can they afford for my studies? I don't want them to get worried for the fee of my studies and this will cause arguments and quarrel between them. These are the things that i don't want to see.
Thats why i always tell myself that 6 years will pass very fast. Anyway, she will come back after the 1st year and will be at local for 6 mths if not wrong, so in the end still not that bad.
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